Notes To Self: Path to Tolerance

Notes for becoming a more tolerant human.

(Total work in progress though lol)


  • Accept that you do not, and cannot, know everything but also know that that goes for everyone else too.
  • Listen to everyone. Never assume reciprocation. 
  • Read, listen-to and converse with views on topics you disagree with regularly. Do not gravitate to things you “want to hear”.  See also: echo chambers. 
  • A popular view doesn’t have to be correct. Maintain healthy skepticism. 
  • Political and spiritual beliefs are personal property. No one is entitled to know them and keeping that privacy protects you from intolerance.  Think before sharing.  Never assume tolerance or belief structure based on intelligence. They are very different things.
  • Beliefs need to be maintained and refactored.  Be open to changing. 
  • When someone is loud, do not try to be louder. They will not hear you. 
  • If an article is not written by a professional journalist, doubt the research. 
  • If an article is written by a professional journalist, know that the story is likely to be an extreme example, on either side of a view to draw readership. 
  • Read the book: Factfulness.

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